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Posted: Wed, Aug 11, 2004 05:53:44 AM

do i really actively listen when others are sharing? it depends! which of course is not the spiritual answer. i do my best to do this by turning to face the person sharing and shutting down the internal conversation, and opening my mind. i wish that i could say that i was able to do this 100 percent of the time, but alas i am only human.
when working with sponsees, i apply the same procedure, and have better success.
does this mean that i am some kind of uncaring monster? NO! it just means that my listening tools need a bit more practice. i can learn to most anything and you know just for today i will reapply myself to working with my active listening tools.
-- DT --

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Tao Te Ching

☯ The Tao that can be spoken is not the eternal Tao ☯

The Tao Teh King, or The Tao and Its Characteristics
by Lao-Tse
Translated by James Legge

Book 2

1) The things which from of old have got the One (the Tao) are--

Heaven which by it is bright and pure;
Earth rendered thereby firm and sure;
Spirits with powers by it supplied;
Valleys kept full throughout their void
All creatures which through it do live
Princes and kings who from it get
The model which to all they give. All these are the results of the
One (Tao).